1. Please don’t assume your baby or toddler is safe on the plane while in your lap. As an advocate for child safety, I feel very strongly about not using the “lap child” option on aircraft. It’s unsafe. You don’t drive without your little one being in a car seat – you shouldn’t fly that way either. I’ve discussed this topic before, and a car seat used on the plane is absolutely the safest route for you little one. Airlines, like Southwest, offer an infant fare, so please check into such offers when booking your flight.
2. If you do check your car seat on the airplane and your toddler is under 40 pounds, use a CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) to ensure your child’s safety. Clear air turbulence does happen and CARES is the best way to protect your little one and the most convenient option since it fits easily in your carry-on bag.
3. With that said, it won’t cost you anything to check your car seat and other baby equipment, like a stroller. However, there are checked-baggage fees for your luggage, with your baby’s clothes, on most airlines.
4. My favorite tip: Use a large plastic lawn bag (find them at Home Depot or any other home improvement store) to contain the car seat. You can take it a step further and wrap the seat in bubble wrap for extra padding and reuse it on the return trip. On our last trip to Florida a car seat, just like the one in this picture, came out onto the luggage carousel pieces at a time. At first we thought it was ours, but fortunately, our daughter’s arrived safe and sound shortly after.
My kids are older and fit nicely in the airplane seats, so we have been checking our car seats on flights and it’s been working well. But please remember that you are your child’s only advocate and keeping him or her safe is your job. If your little one requires a car seat then they should use either a car seat or CARES harness on the airplane.